The true value of life

The true value of life is not found in riches or fame, it is found in the simple finer things in life like, love, peace & happiness.
When I was younger, I thought I had to do or be involved with something really big to make a difference and spread peace, love & happiness. Now I believe that I have the ability to create all that every day with every person I come in contact with. I believe the little things matter just as much as the big ones. Rather than feeling like a victim of policies and politicians, I choose to remain an active positive force in helping to heal the world. You and I can heal the world.

Tuesday, December 18, 2007

Merry Christmas to you all


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As once again we prepare to celebrate the joy of the
miracle of the birth of our Lord Jesus, and as we relive
this holy day may we be seen, as were the shepherds
to be glorifying and praising God, thus showing the
true and only meaning of this blessed season.

Galatians 4verse4-5 says, “When the time had fully come,
God sent forth his son, born of woman, born under the law,
To redeem those who were under the law, so that we might
receive adoption as sons.”
He really is a God of Grace.
Over the years and especially in these more modern times,
the sheer wonder of this act of Grace has been overshadowed
by the emphasis placed by society upon the commercial aspect
of Christmas and mankind has done its best to drown the beauty
of the voices of the Angels and the Heavenly Host by the jarring
noise of cash registers and tills as shops make money during the
Christmas season.
Just as God sent his son into the world, “when the time had
fully come,” so I believe that the time has fully come when
emphasis should be placed upon the true meaning and spirit
of Christmas and water down on the commercialization of
this blessed day.

Let’s start by jolting our memory to the events leading to the
birth of Jesus. In the midst of all the troubles, injustice, lust
and greed that filled a harsh world, the angel of the Lord
appeared to Mary, a young unwed peasant girl and made the
startling announcement that by the power of the Holy Spirit
she would give birth to the Son of God. Then appearing in a
dream to Joseph, the man engaged to be married to Mary, the
Angel said, concerning the child, “-----you are to give him the
name Jesus, because he will save his people from their sins.”
Centuries have gone by since then and despite all that fickle,
wilful man has done to deny and disobey Christ, he is still
the same and only Jesus who as God incarnate, was born in
a humble stable in Bethlehem and who came to save his people.

Just as it was in the years preceding the Advent of Christ so it is
now that the world still displays evidence of injustice, oppression,
and waywardness that causes many sensitive hearts to
recoil in horror. Year after year we are assailed by news items and
incidents of a dreadful nature, and time and time again we experience
the viciousness of man as he tramples over all and sundry in order to
attain his selfish desires. We would all have given up hope altogether
had it not been that as each year draws to its close, the blessed celebration
of Christmas reminds us that Jesus came into the world to save his people
from sin – a calling to which he has remained faithful throughout the ages.
Christmas is a constant reminder to us all that, notwithstanding all that we
may be called upon to endure and all that threatens our society and the way
of life we cherish, Jesus Christ is the same Lord of Life who came to save
his people and as he has done through the ages, will continue to do so.
So although the future may appear bleak we should not lose hope. Instead
we need to put our faith and trust in Jesus the Savior of the World and
especially during this Christmas time, absorb the Love, Joy, Peace and Hope
he so freely gives us to equip us for our journey through life.

In the midst of the gloom that surrounds us in the world stands that shining
beacon of Love-the Light of the World- inviting us to step out of the darkness
and to put our trust in him as we make our way along the pathway of the future,
guided by the Light of Life. We need to cling to the assurance that nothing can
ever separate us from God’s love which is in Christ and this assurance should
enable us to trudge through life with a confidence born only of our personal
experience of the Savior.

May God’s peace, love and happiness be with you all, this Christmas and always.

Saturday, December 8, 2007

Music is the best thing that ever happened to humans



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In one of my previous articles about Peace, I mentioned
that music is the best thing that ever happened to humans.
It sure is to me. When I listen to some music I enjoy, I
feel it flowing through my veins to the centre of my heart
and the effect that boomerangs on my whole being is to
make me feel relaxed, put me in a good state of mind,
remind me of happy moments in my life & organize my
thoughts so that I have peace of mind and happiness.



Music that kills you softly (literally) as it sings out
loud
your life experience.

There are songs that if I listen to make me think that they
were sung especially for me. These are of the same kind as
the one Roberta Flack was talking about when he sang the
song, Killing me softly with his song, whose words I have written below.

Chorus
Strumming my fate with his fingers, singing my life with
his words, killing me softly with his song x2, telling my
whole life with his words, killing me softly with his song.
I heard he sang a good song, I heard he had a
style and so I came to see him, listen for a while and
there he was this young boy, a stranger to my eyes.
Chorus
I felt all blushed with fever, embarrassed by the crowd,
I felt he found my letters and read each one out loud,
I prayed that he would finish but he just kept right on.
Chorus
He sang as if he knew me, and all my warts and all.
And then he looked right through me as if I wasn’t there
And he just kept on singing, singing three words songs.
Chorus





The Hollies kill me softly with their song, “He ain’t heavy, he
is my brother.” He sings a part of my life in this
song when he sings,
The road is long, with many a winding turn, that leads us to who
knows where, who knows where.
But I am strong, strong enough to carry him, he ain’t heavy, he
is my brother, so long we go.
His world is my concern; no burden is he, to bear,
We will get there, but I know
He ain’t heavy, he is my brother.

This really touches my life because it reminds me of the
last day I saw my mother before she had a heart attack and she was
saying to me Seby my daughter as you can see I am sick. I pray to
God everyday that he lets me live at least until my last born child
Emlyn finishes at university and is working and therefore
self-sufficient. I told her not to increase her blood pressure worrying
about Emlyn because he ain’t heavy, he is our brother and his welfare
is our concern and will never be a burden for us to carry.
She eventually had a heart attack & died a week after this conversation
and ever since then this song kills me softly every time I hear it.

Music that makes you think of and long for the one you love.
There are lots of songs about love, each portraying the “color
of love” (song by Billy Ocean) as seen through the eyes of the
composer or the singer. Listening to each of these many love
songs makes you realize the “power of love.” (song by Celine
Dion) After listening to a number of such songs you will agree
with Ijahman that love makes the world go round as he sang
in his song, "Two sides of love."
As you listen to the love songs you feel a stirring from
deep down your heart, you feel the rhythm of your heart,
(Rhythm of my heart by Rod Stewart) an
intense longing for the one you love.

The love song that makes me ponder in awe of the immense love
that it depicts is the song, “When I see you smile,” by Bryan Adams
which goes like this,

Sometimes I wonder if I would make it through,
Through this world without having you,
I just wouldn’t have a clue,
Sometimes it seems like this world is closing in on me,
And there is no way of breaking free,
And then I see you reach for me,
Sometimes I wanna give up,
I wanna give in,
I wanna quit the fight,
But then I see you baby,
And everything alright,
Everything is all right

CHORUS
When I see you smile,
I can face the world, Oh-oo
You know I can do anything,
When I see you smile,
I see a ray of light, Oh-oo
I see you shine right through the rain,
When I see you smile,
Baby when I see you smile, at me


Baby there is nothing that this world would ever do,
Which the touch of your hand can’t do,
Its like nothing I ever knew,
And when the rain is falling,
I can feel it ,
Its here with me now,
I wanna ask you baby,
Its all I ever need, its all I ever need
CHORUS
Sometimes I wanna give up,
I wanna give in,
I wanna quit the fight,
But then I see you baby,
And everything seems so right,
Everything is all right, so right
CHORUS
Smile at me
This song makes me long for my soulmate Dumi because
when I hear his voice,I see a ray of light and I can face the
world.

The other love songs that testify of the sweetness of love
and touch my love cord are the following,
1. Because you loved me by Celine Dion
2. Flying without wings by Westlife
3. I believe I can fly by R. Kelly
4. My love is your love by Whitney Houston
5. In my time by Teddy Pendegrass
6. Let me be your Hero by Enrique Iglesias
7. Endless Love by Lionel Richie and Diana Ross
8. Dont Know much by Linda Ronstadt and Aaron Neville
9. You are still the one by Shania Twain
10. Queen of my Heart by Westlife

Music that makes you cry with sadness
There are sad songs that make you want to cry not with
joy but with sadness. I guess it is such songs that Billy Ocean was
talking about in his songs, "Sad songs to make you cry."
What makes you sad might be the words being sung or the song
might remind you of some sad moments in your life.

The song whose words makes me want to cry with sympathy for
the little girl in the song is the song, "Coat of many colors," by
Dolly Parton which goes like this,

Back through the years I go wandering once again;
Back to the seasons of my youth;
I recall a box of rags which someone gave us
And how my mama put the rags to use
They were rags of many colors and every piece was small
And I didn’t have a coat and it was way down in the fall
Mama sew the rags together, sewing every piece with love,
She made my coat of many colors,
that I was so proud of.
As she saw she told me stories from the Bible she had read,
About the coat of many colors Joseph wore,
and then she said perhaps this coat would bring you good luck and
happiness
And I just couldn’t wait to wear it and Mama blessed it with a kiss
My coat of many colors that my mama made for me
Made only from rags but I wore it so proudly
Although we had no money, I was as rich as I could be
in my coat of many colors, my mama made for me.
So with patches on my breeches and holes in both my shoes
and my coat of many colors I hurried on to school
just to find the others laughing and making fun of me
and my coat of many colors my mama made for me.
Although I couldn't understand it, for I felt I was rich
and I told them of the love my mama sew in every stitch
and I told them of the stories mama told me while she sew it,
and how my coat of many colors was worth more than all their clothes.
They didn't understand it, and I tried to make them see,
One is only poor if he choose to be.
Now I know we had no money but I was as rich as I could be in my coat of
many colors, my mama made for me.
Made just for me.

Then there is the song, "Water runs dry" by Boys II men that make me
want to cry because it reminds me of the sad moments in my past marriage
that led to my divorce. I would listen to it night after night as I slept alone
pondering on how to run away from my life threatening ex-husband.
The words in the song that eventually urged me to take a leap out of the
marriage and continue in my pursuit for happiness go like this,
"Some people work things out but some just don't know how to change. 
  Lets not wait till the waters run dry, we might watch our whole life passing by."
I didn't want to watch my whole life pass by in an unhappy marriage so I moved
on.


Then there are those love songs that make you want to cry with empathy
as they tell of unrequited love, betrayed love, hurt love or rejected love.
You end up feeling the hurt that the singer will be singing about, which
is why you might end up crying. Below is a list of a few of such songs.
1. Nothing compares to you by Sinead O'Connor
2. How am I supposed to live without you by Michael Bolton
3. I will always love you by Whitney Houston
4. Think Twice by Celine Dion
5. Fool Again by Westlife
6. How could an angel break my heart by Toni Braxton
7. Who is holding Donna now by El DeBarge
8. Jesse paint a picture by John Denver
9. Living next door to Alice by Smokie
10. Unchained Melody by Elvis Presley

Music that induces happiness into you
There is music that evokes happiness and erases all stress
from you and makes you feel like dancing, like stepping,
this is the type of music R Kelly was talking about when he
said, “What is it that, can come and take away all your stress?
Music,” in his song , “Happy people.”


The music that always manages to take away all the stress from me
is the song, “The world’s greatest” by R. Kelly which states clearly
just how great God is. It makes me feel happy as I start to remember
all the good things that God has done for me in my life and all the
things I appreciate in life that he created, for example nature. He
is, indeed, an awesome God.
The world's greatest song goes like this,

The world’s greatest, God, the world's greatest

I am a mountain ,I am tall tree,
Ohhhh I am swift wind,sweeping the country,
I am a river down in the valley,
I am a vision and I can see clearly,
If anyone asks you who I am,
Just stand up tall,Look him in the face and say,

CHORUS 
I am that star up in the sky,
I am that mountain big, up, high,
Hey I made it,
I am the world’s greatest,
And I’m that little bit of hope,
Lean my back against the ropes,
I can feel it , I’m the world’s greates
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I am a giant, I am a negro,
Ohhhh , I am a lion, down in the jungle,
I am the magic band, I am the people,
I am a helping hand,
Ohhhh, I am a hero,if anyone asks you who I am ,
Just stand up tall look him in the face and say
CHORUS



Music that makes you ponder about life
There is music that has loads of meaning and teach you
about life. This type of music makes you sit down and start
to think about what is being sung.
Here is a list of songs that make me ponder about life.
1. The living years by Mike and the Mechanics
2. If tomorrow never comes by Ronan Keating
3. The greatest love of all by Whitney Houston
4. The storm is over by R. Kelly
5. What a wonderful world by Rod Stewart and Stevie Wonder
6. My love by Julio Iglesias and Stevie Wonder
7. Loving Pauper by Gregory Isaacs
8. The Great Pretender by Queen
9. Save the best for last by Vanessa Williams
10. Going to the Chapel of love (Wedding songs album)
11. Leaving on a jet plane by Janis Joplin/Chantal Kreviazuk

Yeah, music is the best thing that ever happened to humans.
It brings love, peace and happiness.